There are lots of tips on how to attract a man you like, but what about afterward – how to keep a man? We are revealing their secret!
So let’s start the story of how to keep a man’s heart!
Basic tips on relationship behavior
Related to 40 Lessons on love from singles.
As we said, there are some things that make most men, if not all, annoyed and rejected by their girlfriend’s behavior. On the other hand, some traits are always and forever appealing.
How to keep a boyfriend?
First and foremost, don’t chase it. Do not insist on contact, as much as you are impatient, in love … We are aware that this can be difficult for you, especially when you are in the phase of butterflies in your stomach, but give it a try. You must have heard by now the expression that men are hunters. So it is in their nature to chase their “prey”. Of course, don’t go to the extreme and act cool and repulsive in the relationship: just make some balance.
Evaluate a man realistically: This applies to those who are at the beginning of a relationship, and what exactly does this mean? Try, without bias and overwhelming emotion, to see realistically what he does to you willingly, how much he is doing around you. Don’t always question whether you are good enough for your man and ask yourself how to keep him, but consider whether he is good enough for you.
Lead your life and keep to yourself: do not cancel your girlfriend’s exit because he has contacted you in the meantime. Ok maybe once, but next time don’t, especially since his friends are very important, so the question is if he would do it for you.
Show him that you have a life beyond him – friends, interests, hobbies … Don’t be desperate for his call. They will notice this soon and you will become uninteresting.
Love is when the other person’s happiness is more important than your own.”
H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
And not just for him – this is good for you, for your sake. Keep to yourself and your desires, plans, goals, fun … Enjoy your activities.
Of course, even better if you have some common interests in which you can participate with each other! It’s also one of the good ways to keep it going.
One of the big doubts with the ladies is the question of whether to always be honest or be a little wise/tactful.
It is indeed a dilemma and opinions are divided: while some members of the nicer sex feel that a little warm-cold game is simply necessary to keep the attention of men, others point out that they do not like these games and prefer a pure, honest relationship than themselves beginning and have no desire for acting.
How to keep a man – by zodiac signs
Related to 40 Lessons On Love And Relationship.
If you believe or love to read the horoscope for fun, this part of the text will certainly be of interest to you! Every zodiac sign has its own specifics, whether it is in character, habits, behavior in friendship or love… If you have already managed to attract and conquer your man, that is great, but the question always remains – what now and how to keep a boyfriend.
How to Keep Aries!
When it comes to Aries man, don’t just play on a beauty card. She is important to you, but not sufficient in itself, because he still needs a strong woman, someone who will constantly stimulate his imagination.
Also, try to give the impression that he is in charge (this is pretty important to him), even if that is not the case.
These are the main ways to keep your man, Aries.
How to Keep a Boy Taurus |
The Taurus does not like change. This means that he will make every effort to keep the connection himself. What is up to you is to be a good cook because the saying “love comes through your belly” applies to them.
He also loves femininity and honesty, which is very important to him. Bulls also apply to family people who adhere to such values, so it might be a good idea for you to have similar thoughts.
How to Keep a Male Gemini
Gemini is easy to attract, but it is difficult to keep their attention because of their constant pursuit of challenges. They need a woman who is fun and intelligent, and you should also give him a fair amount of freedom.
“Love is the crowning grace of humanity, the holiest right of the soul, the golden link which binds us.”
What Cancer Need in a Relationship
Cancer applies to very sensitive people, not only women but men as well. To keep him, give him lots of attention, warmth, tenderness, pampering, kind words. Be thoughtful and caring.
How to Hold a Lion
Lions love strong, independent, sociable women, preferably attractive because they like to brag to you in society. The best way to keep them is to praise them, allow them to talk about themselves, respect them, and strive to please them.
How to keep my boyfriend Virgo?
For this, you need to be the ideal girl, wife, mother. Of course, since Virgos are very neat, you have to take care of meticulousness, this is actually very important to them and accept this if you want the relationship to last. They don’t like conflict and drama, so avoid it. Also, in some situations, it may be necessary to raise their confidence.
“A woman knows the face of the man she loves as a sailor knows the open sea.”
Honore de Balzac
Keeping in touch with Libra.
As you know, Libras apply to esthetes, so it is important for them to always be beautiful and refined; to attract them. In addition, it is very important for them not to start arguments for no reason.
How to Keep a Scorpio Man!
They are very passionate, so it is important to be attractive, sexy throughout the relationship to keep his attention. And yes, devoted exclusively to him.
Sagittarius and how to keep him in the relationship.
Sagittarius is easy when it comes to winning, but it’s a different story when you want to keep it in touch. Why? They are quite volatile and also prone to flirting. If you can tolerate it, you will be his life companion. Only without the jealousy scenes.
How to keep Capricorn!
They often seem cold, closed, and seem to study you and chase your downsides. However, they only find it difficult to get in touch, but that is why they have a hard time deciding to break up. For your relationship to last, just be responsible, it’s very important to them. They also do not like girls who are assaulted, but those who carry a mature attraction and intelligence. Build confidence with the Capricorn, fulfill the word, be patient, support it – and it will be yours forever.
Aquarius and love!
The thing with Aquarius is that you need to be his best friend. Don’t be jealous. If you like traveling, this is great because they are “crazy” about them and in that case you will be able to create shared moments and memories. His greatest aphrodisiac is intelligence. Do your best to surprise him.
How to survive and stay in touch with Pisces!
“We love but once, for once only are we perfectly equipped for loving.”
Pisces is romantic and always driven by emotions. Try to keep the relationship intimate so as not to seek solace in another embrace: pamper him, watch him, be careful of him … To them, love is the supreme ideal.
Most of them are artistic souls, and they will surely rejoice and be even more attached to you if, for example, you write a song or some nice letter.
Try to spend a lot of time together.
In addition to horoscope signs, sometimes an important role in seducing and maintaining the relationship is played by the horoscope sign, and what may be more interesting (and useful if you want to keep your man) is to find out what are the erogenous zones of zodiac signs
Some more suggestions for behavior in a love relationship!
To round off this story, here are a few more tips we give you because we think they are useful for your relationship, so if you haven’t applied them so far, here’s an opportunity, as it will certainly affect you to keep your man.
Take part in his interests and passions: this does not mean that you should watch football by force if you are not interested in it at all, but you can surely find something that interests you and he loves. Try to understand it better, talk about it and with your partner, you will see that he will appreciate it and he will be glad because you are working hard.
Don’t try to change it: yes, all women do it, more or less. And it’s okay when it comes to some habits, but not the essence of his being. You wouldn’t want him to do that to you, would you? Accept, love, or find someone that works best for you.
Laugh and make him laugh: men love happy and positive girls very much. The ones who have a sense of humor will make him laugh and cheer at some point when there is a gloomy mood. And sometimes it’s enough to just smile kindly, it will mean more to him than anything.
We hope that we have helped you with these humble tips, and if you have any more, share that we all adopt together
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”