This is a list of 24 tested and proven techniques to help you manifest. Choose one or more of them and use them every day to attract your dream.
Set a goal
The most important thing is to set a goal. Decide in your mind what it is that you will accomplish. Write it down to make it more real.
Pro tip: “By the end of this year, I will be in a happy relationship.”
Read inspirational quotes
Read motivational quotes whenever you have the chance. They will remind you that you can achieve anything you want.
There is no right time or place for true love. It happens by accident, in a heartbeat, in one blinding moment.
Let the universe do its thing. Don’t be obsessed with something, don’t worry that something won’t happen. Relax and unwind.
Pro tip: Don’t constantly complain that you haven’t found the “right one”, don’t subordinate every moment of your life to finding a partner, live your life, and be happy.
Be thankful for all those wonderful things you already have in your life. Try writing a Thanksgiving diary or just take a few minutes before you go to bed and think about all the good things that happened to you that day.
Pro tip: Be grateful for the relationships you had, even though they ended. Be grateful for your friends and family who love you. It will attract even more love into your life, in the form of a soul mate.
Smile, laugh, say nice things to people. Be their support. Don’t complain or get angry.
Pro tip: Your friend met a “special person”. Be happy for them, ask questions, make positive comments.
Do good deeds
Part of spreading positivity is good deeds. Commit to doing a good deed every day.
Pro tip: Put money in someone else’s parking meter. Give someone a compliment. Miss someone in line before you while you wait at the bank. Hold the door for someone.
Use the focus wheel
The focus wheel can help you gain a “momentum” of gratitude that changes your belief system and behavior and helps you ultimately attract more of what you want in life.
Pro tip: Think about the aspect of your life where you feel loved and create sentences (to write on your focus wheel) that describe the situation. For example, “I love my sister who gives me unspeakable support and has complete confidence in my abilities.”
Create a wish list. Cut out (or print out) pictures and words that represent your goal and put them on a folder. Place it somewhere where you will be able to see it every day. This will help you visualize.
Pro tip: If you are trying to attract a soul mate, you can put pictures of a happy couple, a picture of the house you will live in, bedrooms, and the like.
Tip: don’t focus too much on the physical characteristics of your ideal partner (like hair or eye color), think about what your lifestyle will be like and how you will feel.
You can use a wish list to help you visualize, but you can also do without it. Just close your eyes and imagine how your dream comes true, focus on the details and the feeling you will have.
Visualize how you and your partner will look like a couple. Imagine how your friends and family will experience you when they look at you. Involve other senses besides sight when imagining your dream life. Try to imagine scents, feel touch, feel objects under your hands.
Pro tip: Imagine going on vacation with your soulmate. Where are you going? What are you going to do? Imagine holding hands at the airport or lying on the beach together. Imagine hugging or kissing your partner.
Choose a few positive affirmations and repeat them every day.
Pro tip: “Love is coming to me” or “I am in a happy relationship”.
With regular conscious practice, you will achieve peace and well-being, greater focus, and a more positive outlook on life.
Pro tip: Sit in a comfortable position, close your eyes, and focus on your breath. Calm your thoughts. Start with 2-5 minutes of meditation a day.
List of positivity
It’s similar to the Thanksgiving list, but it’s an expanded version, and you can add all the things you’re looking forward to.
Pro tip: “My parents are coming to visit me next weekend” or “I’m going out with friends on Saturday”
Use a reminder
Sometimes it helps to choose a small item and wear it to remind you of what you are trying to attract.
Pro tip: It can be a bracelet that a friend gave you for your birthday with love and whenever you wear it you feel attractive and happy. Decide that this bracelet will be a reminder of the goal to find love. Wear it with confidence and determination or hold it in your hands during visualization.
(Hint: It can be any other object that represents what you want to manifest for example – a pink quartz crystal for “love”.)
Use your point of intent
Your point of intent is basically where your heart and your mind meet. When you activate your point of intent, you manifest with more energy vibration so things come faster and easier.
Pro tip: Balance your point of intent and send a coherent message to the Universe. Click here to learn how to do it more efficiently.
Live “What if…”
Start living right away as if your dream has already become a reality.
Pro tip: Buy clothes to wear to a meeting with your soulmate.
RELATED 12 Genuine Elements For Luck
Make a to-do list
What steps will you take to achieve your goal? How will you seize the opportunity when the universe sends it to you?
Pro tip: Arrange a trip to a club or bar with your friends. You’re more likely to meet someone if you go out than when you’re just sitting at home.
Make a wish list
This will help you be more specific about the things you want. Sometimes we don’t get what we want because we weren’t clear enough when we sent a message to the Universe.
Pro tip: Make a list of the qualities you want your partner to have and what will be important to you in that relationship.
Get rid of negativity
Get negative people out of your life. Those who are constantly in a bad mood and see life as a “half-empty glass”.
Pro tip: You have a friend who does not believe in life and always complains that it is impossible to find a soul mate. Limit the time you spend with that person.
Get rid of limiting beliefs
Do you think that you will not be able to reach a certain goal for some reason? Try to understand why you think so. It’s probably just a limiting belief you need to get rid of.
Pro tip: “There is no perfect connection”. Remind yourself that relationships, just like life in general, don’t have to be perfect to be amazing.
Get rid of clutter
When you are able to get rid of stress and obstacles caused by disorganization, you have paved a clear path to everything you want in life.
Pro tip: Throw away old things from your house that retain a lot of negative energy – old clothes, magazines, newspapers, and the like.
RELATED The Ultimate Motivation Guide!
Pro tip: You may want to read love novels to help you imagine yourself in a relationship. Or you can read books on the Law of Attraction to get more tips on how you can manifest love.
Believe in the Law of Attraction
You have to really believe that you can get what you want in life.
Pro tip: Don’t worry that you haven’t met your soulmate yet, I know you will. And until then, use this time to enjoy the freedom and get to know yourself better outside of the relationship.
Surround yourself with like-minded people
Hang out with people who have the same goals as you, with people who believe in the power of the Law of Attraction. You will exchange positive energy and support each other.
Pro tip- Ask yourself, what will increase the chance of meeting someone:
- Spend time with someone who has given up on love and doesn’t want to meet anyone new.
- Spend time with someone who is in a relationship and not looking for a partner.
- Spend time with someone who is single and looking for a partner.
- Yes. The third is the correct answer.
Make room for what will come into your life
The universe will send you what you asked for, your job is to be open to receiving and not stand in your way.
Pro tip: Have you been invited to a wedding in the last 6 months? Ask if you can take someone because who knows, you might be in a relationship by then.
Bear in mind that some of the links in this post are affiliate links and if you go through them to make a purchase I will earn a commission.